Episode 320

Success Lives on the Other Side of Cringe

Episode 320 - Discover the idea of “productive cringe” and how the slightly embarrassing moves you avoid are often the exact moves that unlock new roles, better opportunities, and a more sustainable career. 

Over the past few months, a phrase has appeared again and again in my coaching sessions with senior professionals. 

  • “I know I should post on LinkedIn, but that feels cringe.” 
  • “I know I should reach out to that person at my dream company, but that feels cringe.” 
  • “I know I should negotiate, but I do not want to be that person.” 

At first glance, these might sound like small worries. In reality, they tell us a great deal about how mid-career professionals are relating to their work in 2025. Cringe has become a powerful, if unspoken, organising force in many corporate careers. Not the justified embarrassment that comes from genuinely unprofessional behaviour, but the anticipatory discomfort we feel when we imagine colleagues rolling their eyes at our ambition. 

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Timestamps to guide your listening:

  • 00:00 The Cringe Factor in Career Advancement
  • 00:53 Understanding Cringe and Its Impact
  • 07:21 Overcoming Cringe in Job Search
  • 12:06 Networking and Cold Outreach Cringe
  • 19:29 Negotiating Salary and Ambitions
  • 24:38 Reinventing Yourself and Embracing Change
  • 26:09 Learning from Leaders: Embracing Cringe

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About the host, Renata Bernarde

Hello, I'm Renata Bernarde, the Host of The Job Hunting Podcast. I'm also an executive coach, job-hunting expert, and career strategist. I teach corporate, non-profit, and public professionals the steps and frameworks to help them find great jobs, change, and advance their careers with confidence and less stress. 

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I'm Renata Bernarde, a former CEO and senior executive, now dedicated to helping professionals succeed in advancing their careers. I believe that you can have the best career. One that satisfies your financial and personal needs, brings you joy, and adds value to your life.
I designed career services that can meet your needs and your budget. So, if you're a seasoned professional at a career crossroads, seeking to align your next job with your life's purpose, then let's redefine your career path together and turn aspirations into achievements. Are you ready? Let's embark on this journey together.

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